I was thinking about a myriad of lessons I think I've learned (or at least acknowledged) over the past eight months of singledom and personal renewal. Some came rushing back today, through a series of strange, wonderful and trying events. Others have been percolating for awhile. I guess some seem redundant. Nevertheless, these are my philosophies, my guidelines, the things I try to incorporate in my everyday practice of living a balanced, fulfilling, healthy, harmonious life.
1. (This lesson was reiterated this morning - a hard one at best.) It's not for me to look for or force relationships...it's for God to place them in my life when the time is right. So I remind myself when they don't work out as planned, let go and be at Peace.
2. You can't keep yourself behind barriers (hiding behind walls) and synonymously live a truly compassionate lifestyle.
3. We are all human, we are all imperfect, we all have faults. But, you still have to find a BALANCE in personal, professional, spiritual and family circles. Do what is right for you and be conscious of others as you do.
4. Life is so precious...it is such a gift. Because it is short, it's important to let go of the things that aren't working or aren't right. Make room and time for those things that are right (as you feel in your gut) as they are the things that are meant to be in your life.
5. You are ALWAYS where you are supposed to be - even if you think you should be somewhere else. (If you feel a strong pull to be somewhere else, perhaps it's time to move to the new emotional, spiritual or physical place where you are NOW meant to be.)
6. Breaking out of relationships is never an easy task. Every time someone goes, a piece of the soul goes with him or her.
7. Whatever is going to happen is going to happen. So mote it be. BUT, you are still responsible for your actions, thoughts, words and energy that you put forth into the universe.
8. Live fully. We are blessed with this precious gift of life and MEANT to do wonderful, amazing, compassionate, kind things. Live every day with that philosophy at the forefront of your thoughts, actions and words.
9. You never know when your smile or kind word will change another's attitude, brighten her outlook, or turn negativity into a positive (and healing) force. Smile often and laugh out loud.
10. Trust yourself to know and act upon what is best for YOU. After all, who could know you better? Hone in on your talents and USE THEM. They are gifts that are meant to MAKE A DIFFERENCE during your time on Earth.
11. You ALWAYS have a choice. Do you choose to be happy and positive or unhappy and negative? Remember, what you put out there is what you will attract.
1 comments:
These are all such excellent reminders. I find the struggle for me comes with believing in them. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the bad and forget that life is a journey. Through the trials and tribulations, I have learned so much about myself and what I value in life. Thanks for the words of encouragement... I am so blessed to have you as a friend.
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